Thursday, May 9, 2013

To Be or Not to Be - An Answer to an Opportunity

When in the brink of making a decision, especially life changing ones, it takes as a while for us to decide.  Sometimes we may have already decided but we change our mind.  Why do we change our mind? Sometimes we are in doubt if we are making a good decision or if we are capable of making it up to our decision...cowardice creeps in... negativity creeps in.

We often ask God for signs and yet when signs are given  we still fear that we may be misinterpreting it.  Of course, prudence and other stuff help us make better decisions.  We may even say that we have carefully planned it and that it has been well thought of.  But when do you actually do it?  When will that decision take off? Your decision may just vanish into thin air. You are decided, yet not moving.

We often equate opportunity with financial growth or loss. Opportunities do not only come in the form of financial growth.  In every area of our life comes an opportunity.  Financial opportunity is something that we usually seek but there are other areas where opportunities are overflowing such as opportunity for spiritual growth, opportunity for intellectual growth, opportunity for physical growth and others.  I guess, opportunity in general brings growth into our whole being.

We are given opportunities to help other people.  When we respond to this, we allow our love for others to increase.  We focus less on ourselves, on our personal needs.  Through this we exercise compassion for others...therefore we grow.

We are given opportunities to be courageous.  Acting on an opportunity requires courage.  Moving towards an opportunity puts out the best in us.  It entails belief in yourself and your capabilities.  We prepare ourselves for the consequences of our action.  We muster the courage to do it. We exercise inner strength... therefore we grow.

We are given opportunities to increase our faith.  We also exercise our belief not only in ourselves but also to the God almighty who provides for us and looks after our every need.  When we believe and do what we must,  we exercise our faith...therefore we grow.

Acting on an opportunity means finding the will power to overcome fear, hesitation, laziness and others.  We find the courage to move on, to get our personal tools and face the promise of success. Your success piles up as you move towards your goal.  Mini success comes when you find your purpose, when you realize that your purpose is greater than your fear, when you are able to say no to to the invitation of your comfort zone, when you are willing to make sacrifices, when your realize that your purpose is greater than what you may lose. 

Achieving your goal is just an icing to your success  because on your course towards achieving it, you have already won your small battles. :)

Opportunities! Anyone? :)









Thursday, April 11, 2013

A Life Lived to the Fullest!

Donna with children Luis and Eira

It's not how young or old you are...
It's not if you are rich or poor...
It's not if you are educated or uneducated...
It's not if you are a catholic or non-catholic...
 It's not if you are in full health or handicapped...

But it is how you have lived your life each day...
It is how you have chosen to use each minute of your day...
with the people you love in mind…
It is to whom you have decided to spend it with... online or in person…
It is how many lives you have touched with your laughter and your sorrows…     
It is how unselfishly you have shared your life with the people you have met…
 
Thank you for showing us the value of life…
Thank you for choosing to spend a part of it with us…
Thank you for your laughter and your sweet smiles…
Thank you for being an inspiration to live our life to the fullest…
Thank you for blessing our lives…
 
We love you Donna.:)  Inside and out.  =) Straight or in circles. :)
You'll forever be in our hearts.

Donna Deveraturda
November 11, 1977 - April 9, 2013 

 

 

Thursday, March 21, 2013

Everything is a Blessing!


Everything is a blessing!
Image by: Mary Rose Geronimo-Tabac

I have come to believe this statement for a long time now.  I have uttered it several times to myself, to my family, my friends and practically to anyone.

Everyday a number of things happen to us.  A day will not pass without making a choice.  It can be as simple as choosing what to wear to as complex as what house to buy or to get married or not. And when things don't work out the way we planned, we often get disappointed and feel burdened.

There's an easy way to win over a problematic situation from the very start. It's simple.  Look at it as a BLESSING. :)

By looking at a situation as a blessing, you will be open to see it as an opportunity to grow, to learn and to the possibility of being led to a better choice. It will lighten the load.

Isn't it true that we learn most from our sour experiences, from our struggles?  Often, it is only on hindsight that we will see a crippling experience as a blessing. But why wait for that time?  Once it has arrived, accept it as a blessing, because it is.  It saves you from the agony of blaming yourself or another person for what happened or what did not happen. It saves you from creating unwanted feelings towards yourself or a loved one.  It saves you from hurting yourself or others.  Just don't miss out the lesson.  :)  It might just be the blessing. :)  Sometimes even just the experience of pain is a blessing in itself.  Having experienced pain, success becomes sweeter and more meaningful. :)

Everything happens for a reason.  You might think that something happened because it is a penalty for something wrong you have done.  Or you may choose to think that it did happen because God wanted to correct you or to lead you to something better.  Truly, things appear to us as we see them.  We may see something as a burden or a blessing.  It is up to us on how we will look at things.

Whatever views we may have, one thing is for sure, God only wants the best for us. God gives everything to us as a blessing.